Danger of getting married to a pastor.

THE DANGER OF GETTING MARRY TO A PASTOR.

Sometime ago a sister inquired "Why is that young ladies of this era's mostly shy away from getting marry to a pastor? The answer to this question has both negative and positive inputs because even an unborn baby understand the ministerial works of a pastor.

However getting marry to a pastor is fabulous but also has it ugly sides. Let pin-points some of the scenarios that encompass in getting Marry to a pastor and reasons why some ladies often shy off from accepting marriage proposal from pastors before enlighten it dangers aspect.

# NEGATIVITY MINDSET FOR REPROVING PASTORS MARITAL PROPOSAL:

1. POVERTY: Some ladies believes that pastors are beggar's, Church rats and always depends on ministry income. Hence for this cause they will vowed to remains single till eternity rather than getting marry to a wretched beggar.

2. ATTENTION: We all knew how women always cherished interactiveness due to their emotional needs and most of them assumed that pastors are busy bodies, who are always fond of traveling from Kilimanjaro Mountain to Mountain Everest. They can even sleep in the church for months without mindful of their wives and children.

They can host/honored church programmes in negligence of their family. And for this reason they conclude; i can't marry a pastor. God forbid; How can i marry a churchy person who will neglect me both sexually and emotionally?

3. EYES SHADOW: There are some set of ladies who assumed that pastors wives are focal sight which others always emulates. They are eagles eyes of the church and there is no balance room for independent but rather living in self consciousness of carefulness and respectfulness. l

Hence for this reason they will conclude; i can't live in self imprisonment due to lack of freedom. I want to live in a free classic world and not as a beam eyes to the world.

# POSITIVITY REASON FOR ACCEPTANCE OF PASTOR MARITAL PROPOSAL:

1. WEALTH: There are some nuggets with 21st Century Computerized brain with an assumption believes of the world revolution, assuming that today pastors are turning into Billionaire's with luxurious investment, fleets of cars, megacity, estates and private jets.

However for this cause they will rather struggle and suffered in poverty with the pastor because they possessed foresight and hopeful for tomorrow blessing. I duly respect this few sets of ladies because they have vision and always dream big.

2. FAMOUS/CELEBRITY: The desire of a woman to feels and taste the world pleasures and it lustfulness is rooted from garden of Eden. Today many of them are striving to attained higher positions in life, they wants fame and desperately wants to rules and dominates.

However for this cause some behold getting marry to a pastor as an advantage to actualized their egoistic mindset, in royalty and powers. Personally, i dispersed this irritating mindset because it always comes with pride and arrogance; as it is written Proverb 16:18"Pride goeth before destruction, and an haughty spirit before a fall".

3. GOD'S WILL/SPIRITUAL GROWTH: There are few ladies who seem to falls into this category. Although in some cases, probably due to overage, intimidation and ridicule some will reluctantly honored such proposal due to time elapse. In such situation they will mumble "Time dey pass and time doesn't wait for anyone".

However there are another few sets who falls into this category but they are spiritual minded. I duly love this few sects heartedly because their priority is how to make Heaven, seeking for spiritual growth and desperately in need of a devoted man who is spiritually matured that will anchor them unto spiritual greatness, either in poverty or riches they don't give a dime.

# THE DANGER OF GETTING MARRY TO A PASTOR:

Nevertheless, life is all about choice and whatever reasons you inhibited for getting marry to a pastor, i will sincerely advice you should be ready for a great encounter. The ministerial works of a pastor isn't carnal but rather a spiritual project. And if you tend to act carnal or unprepared for such spiritual war, you will definitely blame yourself!

I perceived the inspirations for this write-up this evening while discussing with a beloved sister who narrates an horrible ordeal of a woman who recently answer the call of her ancestors few days ago. She was married to a pastor who was a primary target and mark for destruction in the kingdom of darkness.

However the husband been a gallant spiritual war hero unfortunately lost his dare wife due to intensiveness of the battle. He was seriously attacked but while trying to nurture his wound for counter-attack the stray spiritual bullets accidentally hit his beloved wife who is presently laying wasteful in silent grave yard.

# HOW TO REMAIN SPIRITUAL FORTIFIED AS A PASTOR WIFE?

As a pastor wife, your life is always in danger because your husband is persistently waging war against principalities, witchcraft, demonic thrones, dominion, forces and powers, Hence if you are coldly or lukewarm, if they didn't succeed in eliminating your husband you shall be their next victim because their mission and joy to behold your husband in tears and sorrowful.

1. CAREFULNESS: You must be spiritual sensitive and always takes your dreams or vision very serious. Don't ever joke with your dream because before the kingdom of darkness executes any diabolic acts; The Lord will definitely reveal unto you about their mission and expected you to takes charge for spiritual battle.

2. PRAYERFULNESS: You must turns your night into prayers and your days into sleep. The night is a very dangerous moment, therefore your night sleep must be inter-exchange for night prayers if you and your children didn't want to becomes a casualty.

3. INWARD AND OUTWARD PURITY: You must  always remains pure in holiness within and without, always tame your tongue and maintain self control. You must never disobey the instruction of your husband because he is your chief captain.

He is already acquainted with several training experience as a soldier and any day you dispersed his warning or advice you will definitely incur self destruction; because you will ignorantly walk into the enemy line.

And in such terrible situation it will only takes the mercy of God to be delivered because obedient is better than sacrifice; as it is written James 5:16b "The effectual fervent prayer of a righteous man availeth much".

# CONCLUSION.

Pastoral works is a spiritual exercise and if you intend to soul-ties with such honorable person you must be ready for a spiritual battle and if you are not spiritual endowed;

Please i beg for Christ sake; don't ever involve  yourself in any marital relationship with a pastor. I pray that this little piece of info will helps my beloved sisters preparing for marriage in Jesus name.